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        Cancer Update


        AFTER YEARS OF TELLING PEOPLE CHEMOTHERAPY IS THE ONLY WAY TO TRY 
         AND ELIMINATE CANCER,  JOHN HOPKINSH OSPITAL (in USA ) IS FINALLY STARTING
          TO TELL YOU  THAT   THERE IS AN ALTERNATIVE WAY .



1. Every person has cancer cells in the body.These cancer cells do not show up in the standard tests until they have multiplied to a few billion. When doctors tell cancer patients that there are no more cancer cells in their bodies after treatment, it just means the tests are unable to detect the cancer cells because they have not reached the detectable size.

2. Cancer cells occur between 6 to more than 10 times in a person's lifetime.

3. When the person's immune system is strong the cancer cells will be destroyed
     and prevented from multiplying and forming tumors.

4. When a person has cancer it indicates the person has multiple nutritional deficiencies.
     These could be due to genetic, environmental, food and lifestyle factors.

5. To overcome the multiple nutritional deficiencies,
     changing diet and including supplements will strengthen the immune system.

6. Chemotherapy involves poisoning the rapidly growing cancer cells
     and also destroys rapidly-growing healthy cells in the bone marrow, gastro-intestinal tract etc,
     and can cause organ damage, like liver, kidneys, heart, lungs etc.

7. Radiation while destroying cancer cells also burns, scars and damages healthy cells, tissues and organs.

8. Initial treatment with chemotherapy and radiation will often reduce tumor size.
     However prolonged use of chemotherapy and radiation do not result in more tumor destruction.

9. When the body has too much toxic burden from chemotherapy and radiation the immune system is either   
     compromised or destroyed, hence the person can succumb to various kinds of infections and complications.

10. Chemotherapy and radiation can cause cancer cells to mutate and become resistant and difficult to destroy.
       Surgery can also cause cancer cells to spread to other sites.

11.An effective way to battle cancer is to starve the cancer cells
       by not feeding it with the foods it needs to multiply.

CANCER CELLS FEED ON :

a. Sugar , is a cancer-feeder.

By cutting off sugar it cuts off one important food supply to the cancer cells. Sugar substitutes like Nutrasweet, Equal, Spoonful, etc are made with Aspartame and it is harmful. A better natural substitute would be Manuka honey or molasses but only in very small amounts. Table salt has a chemical added to make it white in colour. Better alternative is Bragg's aminos or sea salt.
 ( THE WEST MADE US 2 CHANGE FROM SEA 2 WHITE IODISED SALT )

b. Milk causes the body to produce mucus, especially in the gastro-intestinal tract. Cancer feeds on mucus ..

By cutting off milk and substituting with unsweetened soya milk cancer cells are being starved.

c. Cancer cells thrive in an acid environment .
     A meat-based diet is acidic and it is best to eat fish, and a little chicken rather than beef or pork.
     Meat also contains livestock antibiotics, growth hormones and parasites,
     which are all harmful,especially to people with cancer.

d. A diet made of 80% fresh vegetables and juice, whole grains, seeds, nuts and a little fruits
    help put the body into an alkaline environment .
About 20% can be from cooked food including beans. Fresh vegetable juices provide live enzymes that are easily absorbed and reach down to cellular levels within 15 minutes to nourish and enhance growth of healthy cells. To obtain live enzymes for building healthy cells try and drink fresh vegetable juice (most vegetables including bean sprouts) and eat some raw vegetables 2 or 3 times a day.. Enzymes are destroyed at temperatures of 104 degrees F (40 degrees C).

e. Avoid coffee, tea, and chocolate, which have high caffeine .

Green tea is a better alternative and has cancer-fighting properties . Water- best to drink purified water, or filtered, to avoid known toxins and heavy metals in tap water. Distilled water is acidic, avoid it.

12. Meat protein is difficult to digest and requires a lot of digestive enzymes.
       Undigested meat remaining in the intestines become putrified and leads to more toxic buildup.

13. Cancer cell walls have a tough protein covering. By refraining from or eating less meat it frees more enzymes
       to attack the protein walls of cancer cells and allows the body's killer cells to destroy the cancer cells.

14. Some supplements build up the immune system (IP6, Flor ssence,Essiac, anti-oxidants, vitamins,minerals, EFAs etc.) to enable the body's own killer cells to destroy cancer cells. Other supplements like vitamin E are known to cause apoptosis, or programmed cell death, the body's normal method of disposing of damaged, unwanted, or unneeded cells.

15. Cancer is a disease of the mind,body, and spirit.
       A proactive and positive spirit will help the cancer warrior be a survivor. 

      Anger, un forgiveness and bitterness put the body into a stressful and acidic environment .
      Learn to have a loving and forgiving spirit. Learn to relax and enjoy life.

16. Cancer cells cannot thrive in an oxygenated environment.
       Exercising daily, and deep breathing help to get more oxygen down to the cellular level.
       Oxygen therapy is another means employed to destroy cancer cells.

PLEASE READ ON

1. No plastic containers in micro.

2. No water bottles in freezer.

3. No plastic wrap in microwave.

Johns Hopkinshas recently sent this out in its newsletters. This information is being circulated at WalterReedArmyMedic alCenter as well. Dioxin chemicals causes cancer, especially breast cancer.

Dioxins are highly poisonous to the cells of our bodies. Don'tfreeze your plastic bottles with water in them as this releases dioxins from the plastic. Recently, Dr. Edward Fujimoto, Wellness Program Manager at CastleHospitalwas on a TV program to explain this health hazard.

He talked about dioxins and how bad they are for us. He said that we should not be heating our food in the microwave using plastic containers. This especially applies to foods that contain fat.

He said that the combination of fat, high heat, and plastics releases dioxin into the food and ultimately into the cells of the body.

Instead, he recommends using glass, such as CorningWare, Pyrex or ceramic containers for heating food.

You get the same results, only without the dioxin. So such things as TV dinners, instant ramen and soups, etc., should be removed from the container and heated in something else. Paper isn't bad but you don't know what is in the paper. It's just safer to use tempered glass, CorningWare, etc. He reminded us that a while ago some of the fast food restaurants moved away from the foam containers to paper. The dioxin problem is one of the reasons.

Also, he pointed out that plastic wrap, such as Saran, is just as dangerous when placed over foods to be cooked in the microwave. As the food is nuked, the high heat causes poisonous toxins to actually melt out of the plastic wrap and drip into the food. Cover food with a paper towel instead.


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Words to live by.


                       The 11th - 20th Commandments

11th. Thou shalt not worry, for worry is the most unproductive
          of  all human activities.

12th. Thou shalt not be fearful, for most of the things we fear
          never come to pass.

13th. Thou shalt not cross bridges before you come to them,
          for no  one has yet succeeded in accomplishing this.

14th. Thou shalt handle only one problem at a time,
          and leave the others to the Lord until their turn comes up.

15th. Thou shalt not take troubles to bed with you,
          for they make  very poor bedfellows.

16th. Thou shalt not try to carry the problems of the world on
          your  shoulders, for nobody (except for One)
          has a back that is  broad enough.

17th. Thou shalt be a good listener, for God often speaks to us
           through the mouths of others.

18th. Thou shall not try to relive yesterday; for good or ill, it
           is forever gone. Live in the now and rejoice in it.

19th. Thou shalt firmly dismiss feelings of frustration,
          for 90% of  it is rooted in self-pity and will interfere
           with positive action.

20th. Thou shalt count thy blessings, never overlooking the
          smallest, for our biggest blessings are composed of
          many small ones.


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Posted ByDr. Mercola | July 06 2010 | 191,295 views

Drinking three or more cups of tea a day is as good for you as drinking plenty of water -- and may be even better.

Research dispels the common belief that tea dehydrates. Tea not only rehydrates as well as water does, but it can also protect against heart disease and some cancers.

Rodale states that:
"As in previous studies, a strong link between the beverage and heart-protective qualities was established, most likely a result of the beneficial flavonoid activity in the tea. The research suggests that drinking one to eight cups (cups, not gigantic mugs) a day is associated with a reduced risk of chronic disease."






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Could hot cocoa be the next "wonder drug"

For high blood pressure?

Harvard researchers praise stunningly simple discovery!

According to recent estimates, nearly 1-in-3 American adults has high blood pressure. But for the Kuna Indians living on a group of islands off the Caribbean coast of Panama, hypertension doesn't even exist. In fact, after age 60, the average blood pressure for Kuna Indian islanders is a perfect 110/70.

Is it because they eat less salt? No. Kuna Indians eat as much, if not more salt, than people in the U.S.

Is it due to their genes? No. Kuna Indians who move away from the islands are just as likely to suffer from high blood pressure as anyone else! So what makes these folks practically "immune" to hypertension -- and lets them enjoy much lower death rates from heart attacks, strokes, diabetes, and cancer?

Harvard researchers were stunned to discover it's because they drink about 5 cups of cocoa each day. That's right, cocoa!

Studies show the flavonols in cocoa stimulate your body's production of nitric oxide -- boosting blood flow to your heart, brain, and other organs. In fact, one study found cocoa thins your blood just as well as low-dose aspirin!
But that's not all. A Harvard Medical School professor claims cocoa can also treat blocked arteries, congestive heart failure, stroke, dementia, even impotence!

Painless cholesterol cure

works in just 7 days -- and drives
the "food police" crazy!

Want to lower your cholesterol so fast it'll make your head spin? It's a breeze, just eat guacamole -- or any dish containing avocados!

Most health experts and nutritionists will tell you this rich, delicious Mexican dish is BANNED from any cholesterol- watcher's menu. But not Dr. Steven Pratt. That's because new research shows eating avocados can lower your cholesterol even faster than drugs.... without the side effects!

One study found after just 7 days on a diet including avocados, LDL ("bad") cholesterol and triglyceride levels dropped by 22 percent. Meanwhile, HDL ("good") cholesterol shot up 11 percent -- something most cholesterol- lowering drugs won't do!

The cinnamon cure for high blood sugar

Sprinkle a little cinnamon on your toast, cereal, oatmeal, or sliced apples. It not only tastes good, it lowers your blood sugar!

In a recent study, people reduced their blood sugar levels by as much as 29 percent in just 40 days. That's with NO drugs, NO diet changes -- just plain old cinnamon!

The fat that blasts away cancer

You've been told cancer runs in families. You've been told what to eat and what NOT to eat -- including LESS fat.

Yet Dr. Steven Pratt says there's one fat you should eat MORE of. It's the monounsaturated fat called oleic acid, found in olive oil! It should come as no surprise. After all, olive oil is a staple of the Mediterranean diet. And people in Spain and Greece are far less likely to develop cancer than in the U.S.

But what's really interesting is how olive oil not only prevents cancer, it blasts away cancer cells that already exist! So if you're even the slightest bit worried about cancer, this is one SuperFood you don't want to be without!

NEW prostate-protecting champ trumps tomatoes!

Unless you've been asleep under a rock for the past decade, you've heard the news about tomatoes. They contain a potent antioxidant called lycopene that's been proven to reduce the risk of certain cancers -- in particular, prostate cancer.

A famous Harvard study back in 1995 found that out of 48,000 men surveyed, those who ate 10 or more servings of tomatoes a week reduced their risk of prostate cancer by more than one-third. What's more, they lowered their risk of aggressive prostate tumors (the kind that are really tough to treat) by HALF!

But before you reach for that slice of pizza or bottle of ketchup, listen up. What if I told you about a sweet, refreshing food Dr. Steven Pratt recommends that's even better for your prostate than tomatoes?

This NEW prostate protecting champ is watermelon! Ounce for ounce, watermelon is even richer in lycopene than tomatoes. And since you probably eat more watermelon in one sitting than you do tomatoes, you don't have to gorge on it 10 times a week in order to slash your cancer risk! Just a few times a week should do it.

Knock out an ulcer with broccoli?!

About 25 million Americans will suffer from a peptic ulcer at some point in their lives. To get rid of their ulcers, most will take an antibiotic like amoxicillin.

Pretty tame stuff, right? Wrong! Amoxicillin can bring with it unwanted side effects like fever, nausea, stomach pain, diarrhea, headache, even a yucky condition called "hairy tongue"!

And if you think that's bad, according to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), the cost of treating an ulcer with antibiotics over an average 17-day period can run upward of $1,000!

Fortunately, there's one unconventional treatment with NO side effects Dr. Pratt swears by. "Eat broccoli!" he says. Why?

Broccoli contains a remarkably potent compound called sulforaphane, that kills off the H. pylori bacteria that cause most ulcers. Not only can it knock out an ulcer, eating one serving a day for a month might run you 20 bucks... a fraction of the cost of drugs.












































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Schizophrenia is a mental disorder. It difficult for a person to tell the
difference between real and unreal experiences, to think logically, to
have normal emotional responses to others, and to behave normally in
social situations.


Causes, incidence, and risk factors
Schizophrenia is a complex and puzzling illness.

Even the experts in the field are not exactly sure what causes it.

Some doctors think that the
brain may not be able to process information correctly.
Genetic factors appear to play a role, as people who have family members
with schizophrenia may be more likely to get the disease themselves. Some
researchers believe that events in a person's environment may trigger
schizophrenia. For example, problems during intrauterine development
(infection) and birth may increase the risk for developing schizophrenia
later in life.
Psychological and social factors may also play some role in its
development. However, the level of social and familial support appears to
influence the course of illness and may be protective against relapse.
There are 5 recognized types of schizophrenia: catatonic, paranoid,
disorganized, undifferentiated, and residual. Features of schizophrenia
include its typical onset before the age of 45, continuous presence of
symptoms for 6 months or more, and deterioration from a prior level of
social and occupational functioning.
People with schizophrenia may show a variety of symptoms. Usually the
illness develops slowly over months or even years. At first, the symptoms
may not be noticed. For example, people may feel tense, may have trouble
sleeping, or have trouble concentrating. They become isolated and
withdrawn, and they do not make or keep friends. As the illness
progresses, psychotic symptoms develop:
Delusions - false beliefs or thoughts with no basis in reality
Hallucinations - hearing, seeing, or feeling things that are not there
Disordered thinking - thoughts "jump" between completely unrelated
topics (the person may talk nonsense)
Catatonic behavior - bizarre motor behavior marked by a decrease in
reactivity to the environment, or hyperactivity that is unrelated to
stimulus
Flat affect - an appearance or mood that shows no emotion
No single characteristic is present in all types of schizophrenia. The
risk factors include a family history of schizophrenia.

Schizophrenia is
thought to affect about 1% of the population worldwide.

In the unasco company alone, there are about 5 workers affected by this disease.
Symptoms :
Talking nonsense in the bus….
Inventing issues  and  Make-believe Stories….
Borrowing Money…here and there.... 
Schizophrenia appears to occur in equal rates among men and women, but
women have a later onset. For this reason, males tend to account for more
than half of patients in services with high proportions of young adults.
Although the onset of schizophrenia is typically in young adulthood, cases
of the disorder with a late onset (over 45 years) are known.
Childhood-onset schizophrenia begins after the age of 5 and, in most
cases, after relatively normal development. Childhood schizophrenia is
rare and can be difficult to differentiate from other pervasive
developmental disorders of childhood, such as autism.

Symptoms
Catatonic type:
Motor disturbances
Stupor
Negativism
Rigidity
Agitation
Inability to take care of personal needs
Decreased sensitivity to painful stimulus
Paranoid type:
Delusional thoughts of persecution or of a grandiose nature
Anxiety
Anger
Violence
Argumentativeness
Disorganized type:
Incoherence (not understandable)
Regressive behavior
Flat affect
Delusions
Hallucinations
Inappropriate laughter
Repetitive mannerisms –
Example: “Ground crew na daw pagkadating from vacation "
- 10 times INULIT yan sa loob ng  bus…..
Social withdrawal
Undifferentiated type: Patient may have symptoms of more than one subtype
of schizophrenia.
Residual type: Prominent symptoms of the illness have abated, but some
features - such as hallucinations and flat affect - may remain.

Signs and tests
Because other diseases can also cause symptoms of psychosis, psychiatrists
should make the final diagnosis. The diagnosis is made based on a thorough
psychiatric interview of the person and family members. As yet, there are
no defining medical tests for schizophrenia. The following factors may
suggest a schizophrenia diagnosis, but do not confirm it:
Developmental background
Genetic and family history
Changes from level of functioning prior to illness
Course of illness and duration of symptoms
Response to pharmacological therapy
CT scans of the head and other imaging techniques may identify some
changes associated with schizophrenia in the research literature and may
rule out other neurophysiological disorders.
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Foods That Burn Fat :


By Tom Venuto, Author of
Burn The Fat, Feed The Muscle (BFFM)
www.burnthefat.com
www.fitren.com
Copyright 2003, Fitness Renaissance, LLC
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1. Oatmeal

2. Yams (and sweet potatoes)

3. Potatoes (white or red)

4. Brown Rice

5. 100% whole wheat and whole grain products

6. Green fibrous vegetables (broccoli, green beans, asparagus, lettuce, etc)

7. Fresh Fruit

8. Skim milk & nonfat dairy products

9. Chicken Breast (and Turkey Breast)

10. Egg whites

11. Fish and shellfish

12. Lean red meat

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Foods That Turn To Fat


1. Ice Cream

2. Fried Foods

3. Donuts and pastries

4. White sugar, Candy, Chocolate and sweets

5. Soda

6. Fruit “drinks” and other sugar sweetened beverages

7. Bacon, Sausage

8. White bread

9. Potato Chips, Nachos, Corn Chips

10. Hot dogs, fast food burgers

11. Cookies, cakes, pies

12. Sugary breakfast cereals




Hypnosis and Physical Health

Although the exact mechanism by which hypnosis works is still unknown, it appears that the effect that hypnosis has, results in an alteration of how the brain communicates with the rest of your body through nerve impulses, hormones and body chemicals, such as neuropeptides. This alteration is useful in helping control some of the physiological processes that occur within the body. The following list are examples of how hypnosis can be used to do this in order to help a person gain control of their physical well-being:


Treat pain during childbirth and reduce labor time
Control pain during dental and surgical procedures
Relieve symptoms associated with Irritable Bowel Syndrome
Lower blood pressure
Control nausea and vomiting caused by chemotherapy
Reduce the frequency and intensity of headaches, including migraines
Treat and ease symptoms of asthma
Hasten the healing of some skin diseases including warts, psoriasis and atopic dermatitis 


      Alpha: Relaxation/ Visualization/ Creativity 6-12 Hz

When you are truly relaxed, your brain activity slows from the rapid patterns of Beta into the more gentle waves of Alpha. Your awareness expands.

Fresh creative energy begins to flow. Fears vanish. You experience a liberating sense of peace and well-being. In biofeedback, Alpha training is most commonly recommended for the treatment of stress.

Alpha waves range between 7-12 HZ. This is a place of deep relaxation, but not quite meditation.

In Alpha, we begin to access the wealth of creativity that lies just below our conscious awareness - it is the gateway, the entry point that leads into deeper states of consciousness. Alpha is also the home of the window frequency known as the Schuman Resonance - the resonant frequency of the earth's electromagnetic field.


          Theta: Meditation/ Intuition/ Memory 4-7 Hz


Going deeper into relaxation, you enter the elusive and mysterious Theta state where brain activity slows almost to the point of sleep, but not quite.

Theta is the brain state where magic happens in the crucible of your own neurological activity. Theta brings forward heightened receptivity, flashes of dreamlike imagery, inspiration, and your long-forgotten memories. Theta can bring you deep states of meditation. A sensation of "floating." And, because it is an expansive state, in Theta, you may feel your mind expand beyond the boundaries of your body.

Theta rests directly on the threshold of your subconscious. In biofeedback, it is most commonly associated with the deepest levels of meditation. Theta also plays an important part in behavior modification programs and has been used in the treatment of drug and alcohol addiction. Finally, Theta is an ideal state for super-learning, re-programming your mind, dream recall, and self-hypnosis.

Theta waves range between 4-7 HZ. Theta is one of the more elusive and extraordinary realms we can explore. It is also known as the twilight state which we normally only experience fleetingly as we rise up out of the depths of delta upon waking, or drifting off to sleep.

In Theta, we are in a waking dream, vivid imagery flashes before the mind's eye and we are receptive to information beyond our normal conscious awareness. Theta has also been identified as the gateway to learning and memory. Theta meditation increases creativity, enhances learning, reduces stress and awakens intuition and other extrasensory perception skills.


Delta: Detached Awareness/ Healing/ Sleep 1-4 Hz


Long, slow, undulating.

Delta is the slowest of all four brain wave frequencies. Most commonly associated with deep sleep, certain frequencies in the Delta range also trigger the release of Human Growth Hormone so beneficial for healing and regeneration. This is why sleep - deep restorative sleep - the kind that Delta frequencies help induce is so essential to the healing process.

Delta is the brain wave signal of the subconscious, the seat from which intuition arises. Delta is not only ideal for sleep and deep regeneration potential, but also when you want to access your unconscious activity and help that wellspring of information flow to your conscious mind for clearing and for empowerment. Delta waves range between 0-4 HZ.




Facts and Fiction about Hypnosis


FICTION: When your under hypnosis you surrender your free will.
FACT: Hypnosis is a heighten state of concentration and focus. When your under hypnosis you DO NOT lose your personality, free-will, or personal strength.

FICTION: When your under hypnosis the therapist controls you.
FACT: You do hypnotherapy only FOR YOURSELF. A hypnotherapist serves only as a guide or facilitator.

FICTION: Under hypnosis you lose consciousness, or suffer from amnesia.
FACT: A small number of people who go into a very hypnotic state, experience spontaneous amnesia. However MOST people remember everything that occurs under hypnosis.

FICTION: You can be put under hypnosis without your consent.
FACT: Successful hypnosis depends on your willingness to experience it—even with voluntary hypnosis, not everyone can be led into a hypnotic state.


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Accepting That Good Parents May Plant Bad Seeds
By RICHARD A. FRIEDMAN, M.D.
Published: July 12, 2010 



Everett Collection
Patty McCormack, left, and Nancy Kelly in the 1956 film “The Bad Seed.”
“I don’t know what I’ve done wrong,” the patient told me.

She was an intelligent and articulate woman in her early 40s who came to see me for depression and anxiety. In discussing the stresses she faced, it was clear that her teenage son had been front and center for many years.

When he was growing up, she explained, he fought frequently with other children, had few close friends, and had a reputation for being mean. She always hoped he would change, but now that he was almost 17, she had a sinking feeling.

I asked her what she meant by mean. “I hate to admit it, but he is unkind and unsympathetic to people,” she said, as I recall. He was rude and defiant at home, and often verbally abusive to family members.

Along the way, she had him evaluated by many child psychiatrists, with several extensive neuropsychological tests. The results were always the same: he tested in the intellectually superior range, with no evidence of any learning disability or mental illness. Naturally, she wondered if she and her husband were somehow remiss as parents.

Here, it seems, they did not fare as well as their son under psychiatric scrutiny. One therapist noted that they were not entirely consistent around their son, especially when it came to discipline; she was generally more permissive than her husband. Another therapist suggested that the father was not around enough and hinted that he was not a strong role model for his son.

But there was one small problem with these explanations: this supposedly suboptimal couple had managed to raise two other well-adjusted and perfectly nice boys. How could they have pulled that off if they were such bad parents?

To be sure, they had a fundamentally different relationship with their difficult child. My patient would be the first to admit that she was often angry with him, something she rarely experienced with his brothers.

But that left open a fundamental question: If the young man did not suffer from any demonstrable psychiatric disorder, just what was his problem?

My answer may sound heretical, coming from a psychiatrist. After all, our bent is to see misbehavior as psychopathology that needs treatment; there is no such thing as a bad person, just a sick one.

But maybe this young man was just not a nice person.

For years, mental health professionals were trained to see children as mere products of their environment who were intrinsically good until influenced otherwise; where there is chronic bad behavior, there must be a bad parent behind it.

But while I do not mean to let bad parents off the hook — sadly, there are all too many of them, from malignant to merely apathetic — the fact remains that perfectly decent parents can produce toxic children.

When I say “toxic,” I don’t mean psychopathic — those children who blossom into petty criminals, killers and everything in between. Much has been written about psychopaths in the scientific literature, including their frequent histories of childhood abuse, their early penchant for violating rules and their cruelty toward peers and animals. There are even some interesting studies suggesting that such antisocial behavior can be modified with parental coaching.

But there is little, if anything, in peer-reviewed journals about the paradox of good parents with toxic children.

Another patient told me about his son, now 35, who despite his many advantages was short-tempered and rude to his parents — refusing to return their phone calls and e-mail, even when his mother was gravely ill.

“We have racked our brains trying to figure why our son treats us this way,” he told me. “We don’t know what we did to deserve this.”

Apparently very little, as far as I could tell.

We marvel at the resilient child who survives the most toxic parents and home environment and goes on to a life of success. Yet the converse — the notion that some children might be the bad seeds of more or less decent parents — is hard to take.

It goes against the grain not just because it seems like such a grim and pessimistic judgment, but because it violates a prevailing social belief that people have a nearly limitless potential for change and self-improvement. After all, we are the culture of Baby Einstein, the video product that promised — and spectacularly failed — to make geniuses of all our infants.

Not everyone is going to turn out to be brilliant — any more than everyone will turn out nice and loving. And that is not necessarily because of parental failure or an impoverished environment. It is because everyday character traits, like all human behavior, have hard-wired and genetic components that cannot be molded entirely by the best environment, let alone the best psychotherapists.

“The central pitch of any child psychiatrist now is that the illness is often in the child and that the family responses may aggravate the scene but not wholly create it,” said my colleague Dr. Theodore Shapiro, a child psychiatrist at Weill Cornell Medical College. “The era of ‘there are no bad children, only bad parents’ is gone.”

I recall one patient who told me that she had given up trying to have a relationship with her 24-year-old daughter, whose relentless criticism she could no longer bear. “I still love and miss her,” she said sadly. “But I really don’t like her.”

For better or worse, parents have limited power to influence their children. That is why they should not be so fast to take all the blame — or credit — for everything that their children become.


Dr. Richard A. Friedman is a professor of psychiatry at Weill Cornell Medical College in Manhattan.


A version of this article appeared in print on July 13, 2010, on page D5 of the New York edition.
GREEN TEA

Green tea has increasingly become a very popular drink worldwide because of its immensely powerful health benefits.
It is extraordinarily amazing what green tea can do for your health.
And if you're not drinking 3 to 4 cups of green tea todayyou're definitely NOT doing your health a big favor. 

  Here Are The 25 Reasons Why You Should Start
                  Drinking Green Tea Right Now:

1. Green Tea and Cancer

Green tea helps reduce the risk of cancer.
The antioxidant in green tea is 100 times more effective than vitamin C and 25 times better than vitamin E.
This helps your body at protecting cells from damage believed to be linked to cancer.
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2. Green Tea and Heart Disease

Green tea helps prevent heart disease and stroke by lowering the level of cholesterol.
Even after the heart attackit prevents cell deaths and speeds up the recovery of heart cells.
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3. Green Tea and Anti-Aging

Green tea contains antioxidant known as polyphenols which fight against free radicals.
What this means it helps you fight against aging and promotes longevity.
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4. Green Tea and Weight Loss

Green tea helps with your body weight loss. Green tea burns fat and boosts your metabolism rate naturally.
It can help you burn up to 70 calories in just one day.
That translates to 7 pounds in one year.
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5. Green Tea and Skin

Antioxidant in green tea protects the skin from the harmful effects of free radicalswhich cause wrinkling and skin aging.
Green tea also helps fight against skin cancer.
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6. Green Tea and Arthritis

Green tea can help prevent and reduce the risk of rheumatoid arthritis.
Green tea has benefit for your health as it protects the cartilage by blocking the enzyme that destroys cartilage.
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7. Green Tea and Bones

The very key to this is high fluoride content found in green tea.
It helps keep your bones strong.
If you drink green tea every daythis will help you preserve your bone density.
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8. Green Tea and Cholesterol

Green tea can help lower cholesterol level.
It also improves the ratio of good cholesterol to bad cholesterolby reducing bad cholesterol level.
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9. Green Tea and Obesity

Green tea prevents obesity by stopping the movement of glucose in fat cells.
If you are on a healthy dietexercise regularly and drink green teait is unlikely you'll be obese.
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10. Green Tea and Diabetes

Green tea improves lipid and glucose metabolismsprevents sharp increases in blood sugar leveland balances your metabolism rate.
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11. Green Tea and Alzheimer's

Green tea helps boost your memory.
And although there's no cure for Alzheimer'sit helps slow the process of reduced acetylcholine in the brainwhich leads to Alzheimer's.
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12. Green Tea and Parkinson's

Antioxidants in green tea helps prevent against cell damage in the brainwhich could cause Parkinson's. People drinking green tea also are less likely to progress with Parkinson's.
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13. Green Tea and Liver Disease

Green tea helps prevent transplant failure in people with liver failure. Researches showed that green tea destroys harmful free radicals in fatty livers.
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14. Green Tea and High Blood Pressure

Green tea helps prevent high blood pressure.
Drinking green tea helps keep your blood pressure down by repressing angiotensinwhich leads to high blood pressure.
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15. Green Tea and Food Poisoning

Catechin found in green tea can kill bacteria which causes food poisoning and kills the toxins produced by those bacteria.
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16. Green Tea and Blood Sugar

Blood sugar tends to increase with agebut polyphenols and polysaccharides in green tea help lower your blood sugar level.
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17. Green Tea and Immunity

Polyphenols and flavenoids found in green tea help boost your immune systemmaking your health stronger in fighting against infections.
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18. Green Tea and Cold and Flu

Green tea prevents you from getting a cold or flu.
Vitamin C in green tea helps you treat the flu and the common cold.
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19. Green Tea and Asthma

Theophylline in green tea relaxes the muscles which support the bronchial tubesreducing the severity of asthma.
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20. Green Tea and Ear Infection

Green tea helps with ear infection problem.
For natural ear cleaningsoak a cotton ball in green tea and clean the infected ear.
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21. Green Tea and Herpes

Green tea increases the effectiveness of topical interferon treatment of herpes.
First green tea compress is appliedand then let the skin dry before the interferon treatment.
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22. Green Tea and Tooth Decay

Green tea destroys bacteria and viruses that cause many dental diseases.
It also slows the growth of bacteria which leads to bad breath.
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23. Green Tea and Stress

L-theaninewhich is a kind of amino acids in green teacan help relieve stress and anxiety.
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24. Green Tea and Allergies

EGCG found in green tea relieves allergies.
Soif you have allergiesyou should really consider drinking green tea.
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25. Green Tea and HIV

 Scientists in Japan
 have found  that EGCG
(Epigallocatechin Gallate)
 in green tea can stop HIV
 from   binding to healthy
 immune  cells.
 What this means is that
 green tea can help stop the
  HIV virus from spreading.
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For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you. It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion. Once this "sludge" reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine. Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer. It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.
A serious note about heart attacks - You should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting. Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line.
You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack. Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms. 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up. Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know the better chance we could survive.
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